There are many ways to gauge the health of a society. The condition of its economy, the effectiveness of its political leadership, how united or divided the people are on the issues they face and so on. How a society treats its most vulnerable is probably the most accurate form of measure because it speaks to the heart of that society’s values.
I wrote yesterday about children in Greece being abandoned by their parents because of the tough economic conditions that country is facing. In Saudi Arabia, a man was arrested and charged for trying to sell his son on the Internet for $20 million and in Canada, a father and his wife and son are on trial, charged with the murder of the father’s three daughters and their aunt.
This isn’t something to be found only in developing countries, this lack of concern for the welfare of children is becoming endemic across all societies.
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13 month old baby left alone in tent by Occupy DC protester photo: Washington Post |
Yesterday, it was reported that an Occupy protester was arrested for leaving his baby in a tent in sub zero weather. Penn State is in the grip of a huge child sex abuse scandal and so many children go missing in North America, we’ve created a unique system called the Amber Alert just to try and recover them.
Pedophile porn rings abound on the Internet and children all over the world, some still infants, are routinely victimized and terribly abused so that some can make money feeding the sick perversions of others.
In 2005, the last year for which there are accurate statistics, there were 66,500 children reported missing in Canada alone, a country of only 35 million people. In the United States, the number is almost 800,000. Globally, the number is in the millions although nobody really knows for sure just exactly what the true number is because some countries don’t track the statistics.
Four children die every day in the United States from abuse and there are proportionate numbers in other developed countries around the world.
These are children and they are at risk but what are we focused on? Based on what is being talked about online, and somewhat passionately and even stridently, we seem to be focused on everything but our children.
There are those who send out tweets every day to save baby seals, dolphins or (insert mammal of choice). Others are intent on proving that the Republicans /Conservatives or the Democrats/Liberals are the agents of Satan and must be defeated or else we are on the Freeway to Hell.
Quite a few are committed to making fools of themselves with inane comments about their hair, their sex lives or the sex life they would like to have with another tweep while others are burning with the light of Jesus to save the world from an oil pipeline, greenhouse gas emissions and melting polar ice.
There are thousands of messages advertising how to make money online, how to increase your social network presence and about this new high tech toy or that.
There are thousands of messages advertising how to make money online, how to increase your social network presence and about this new high tech toy or that.
The economy consumes many people while showing others how to profit and make money in this current economy is the mission of more than a few. Football, hockey, the UFC or (insert sport of choice) are the passion of those taking a break from whatever else they usually comment on.
Anonymous brags on the Internet about how it shut down a child porn ring and then moves on to its next grandstanding moment.
In between are countless quotes from famous dead people and the bible and while all this chatter goes on an average of more that 2000 children in North America alone will go missing that same day.
Anonymous brags on the Internet about how it shut down a child porn ring and then moves on to its next grandstanding moment.
In between are countless quotes from famous dead people and the bible and while all this chatter goes on an average of more that 2000 children in North America alone will go missing that same day.
Yes, there are people who are concerned. Some devote their lives and their careers to doing something about it but most of our societies have other, more important priorities. A few people fire off a quick tweet donation to some mysterious website in support of abused children but then it’s back to the chatter.
I understand and appreciate that we can’t be talking about only this topic every day, all day. We live our lives to the best of our ability and we have many things that interest us, that we consider important and that we want to discuss and share with others.
But what I don’t understand is why the safety and care of our children isn't a priority. In fact, I question why it isn't even on the political agenda.
There isn’t one political candidate talking about this, not one PAC, lobby or community group, newspaper, television or radio station or political party putting pressure on government to address this problem. We’re more outraged and defensive about SOPA and the possibility of government imposing restrictions on the Internet than we are about what is happening to children…our children in our communities.
You can tell much about a society by its priorities and it’s clear that our society is more concerned with saving animals and the Internet than it is with saving our children. We've become more focused on proving our point, whatever it is, than we are with protecting the most vulnerable in our society. I'm not surprised, this is the same society that steps around the homeless while donating to protesters living in tents. Yesterday a baby was endangered thanks to the negligence of one of those protesters whose priorities were focused on something other than the welfare of his child.
Sadly that seems to say pretty much all you need to know about our values. It makes me wonder how we can ever hope to build a successful society on them.
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I like overall what your focus is in this post. What do you think about the social service programs for children being drastically cut or completely unfunded due to efforts by the #GOP? No money for social services while bankers get millions of dollars of bonus money each year via taxpayer dollars! ...and let's not repeal those tax cuts for the 1% because they need it to feed their hungry children. On the topic of children, 30,273 children die every day of hunger (starvation.net).
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This isn't a 1% vs others issue. I think it is appalling that any society does not protect its children and that all political parties aren't more engaged in protecting them. The left isn't covered in glory on this issue any more than the right and the 99% are as interested in their own causes as the 1% to exclusion of protecting children. I think everyone needs to give their heads a shake, stop blaming others and accept that we are all responsible for this.
ReplyDeleteWhen my ex left my son and I destitute I went without so that my son could have. When I gave birth to my son I knew what the true meaning of love was and that I would walk on hot coals for him. I read the articles about Greece and I was in tears. My husband is a marine biologist and I understand what he does. We do however need more people screaming for children's rights. I volunteer at a youth shelter and they received a large grant this year from the government. Maybe someone is getting it.
ReplyDeleteThere are some, like you who step up, who volunteer or speak out or work quietly behind the scenes and I respect all for that. It's the people like Paul McCartney who will crawl out on an ice flow with a band of photographers to get a picture of him defending baby seals but will never hear speak about the abuse of children that offend me. Our children should not be at the bottom of the priority list, they should be at the top, exactly where you placed your son. Thank you for reading the post and for sharing your story.
ReplyDeleteNearly every day I post on twitter for the sole purpose to improve child safety here in Ottawa. I have attempted to persuade the Ministry of Education (Ontario) to have criminal checks for all volunteers who work with students. There is NO law requiring parents or even community members from having a criminal records check. Unlike the U.S., here in Canada especially in Ontario the role of volunteers can be extensive and I've heard now of two incidences of volunteers driving students in their own car to school activities without a criminal records check (and likely not a licence check or even a insurance check). The capital of Canada appears to be one of the most unsafe locations for children. It seems people are more interested in Parliament Hill (politics) and even those with children the the two school boards seem passive in expecting more safety for their children. keep in mind that 69 school boards have STRONG safety practices, but 9 do not (two are in Ottawa) (5 are unknown at this time). Seems school boards have been set up as a "corporation" which is fully funded by tax-payers but it has no complaint system in place.
ReplyDeleteI try to show a bit of my personal side, to make me a bit more real. I really have felt that being an advocate has been an unexpected "Bucket list" for me. It is hard to put yourself out there each day and often in isolation. I have really appreciated those people who have RT (re-tweeted) or have sent me DM (direct messages) of support. Each small comment is like a small pat on the back to keep me going. Sadly in Canada there is no law preventing even the most heinous offenders from being a parent (AKA Karla Homolka) but it is important for schools to demonstrate due diligence in the area of child safety.
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Thank you for sharing your story here. It is a sad state of affairs when a society takes the safety of its children for granted. In Ottawa, the mayor and council have enacted a bylaw requiring helmets for children under six using a public skating facility but there are no requirements for criminal background checks or measure to prevent children from being attacked, abused or abducted. It makes me wonder how we got so far from our core value system.
ReplyDeleteIn the States you have a background check for many jobs even when you volunteer. I also volunteer at our local library and had to have an intensive check done, just as I did for working at the shelter.
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