Tuesday, 1 May 2012

Teaching Children To Achieve Mediocrity

The most depraved type of human being is the man
without a purpose.
- Ayn Rand

I get up every morning and embrace hope. Honestly I do. I wake up, slowly I admit, but filled with the hope that this new day, I will not stumble over more stupidity beyond government stupidity to which I am pretty much resigned.

I woke up this morning with cautious optimism. I say cautious because I knew Occupy would be on the loose today and who knows what stupidity they’re capable of implementing.

My caution was well placed and my hope was dashed on the rocks of idiocy. No….it wasn’t Occupy, as hard as that is to believe. In fact, it wasn’t even government. It was amateur soccer.

The organizers of children’s soccer in my city are implementing a number of changes to the game in order to make it more ‘inclusive’ and less competitive.

Less competitive? Soccer is a game; it’s supposed to be competitive.

Here are the changes.

1. There will be no goal tenders in order to make it easier for the less skilled player to perhaps have an opportunity to score.

2. Games will be held but score will not be kept to prevent any sense of winning and losing which might hurt the feelings of those on the losing team.

3. The word tournaments will not be used. It will be replaced by the word festival which has a more celebratory, inclusive feel to it and which removes any sense of soccer being a competition of skills.

4. Teams with visible minority players will be expected to ensure that the percentage of goals scored will match the percentage of racial diversity on the team although if they are not tracking goals, I’m unsure how they expect to track this.

5. All teams will receive a trophy at each festival.

There are more changes but you get the picture. These changes come on the heels of their previous ruling that any team which won the game by more than five goals (while they were still keeping score) actually was declared to have lost the game by default. I can’t even begin to explain to you, let alone myself, how people think up stupidity like this.

It isn’t a few wingnuts behind this either. The Chair for Sport Research at Laurentian University is extolling this approach as a better way to teach children and even Sport Canada has come down in favour of making soccer less competitive for players under eight.

It's like deciding that children can be taught how to play chess but they will not be permitted to achieve checkmate. All games will be mandated to end in stalemate. Won't that make chess a much more satisfying game for everyone! I imagine that they will also mandate that both black and white pieces must be removed in equal numbers to maintain proper racial diversity on the board.

Life is nothing, if not competitive. All life competes. All species compete. Surely we have a duty and a responsibility to teach our children how to deal with competition?

Competition is one of the primary drivers that motivate us to strive to achieve. What’s the point in trying if you don’t have to worry about the end result? If everything is boiled down to the lowest common denominator then mediocrity becomes the new standard.

Think about it.

Instead of teaching children how to win gracefully and how to lose with dignity, instead of teaching children the value of working hard to develop skills that will reward them, we are lowering expectations. We are teaching our children that the best and brightest of us, the people who work hardest, strive for the stars don’t deserve any more than those who are average or can't be bothered trying.

It is very much behind the attitude so prevalent today where the successful are being attacked for being....well....successful.

We used to teach our children important things like manners, respect for others, integrity and the value of hard work. We used to teach them self-reliance and how to learn from defeat and to try again.

Now we are preparing our children to have the same entitlement attitude that has become the new normal for too many in our societies.

We are teaching our children that there is no value in hard work, no reward in learning and practicing to be better. We are teaching them to be like too many of us who look for ways to force the achievers to drop down to our level so that we don’t have to strive to reach up to theirs.

We are allowing the stupid thinking of the politically correct and the mediocre to rob our children of their full potential,  their desire and the opportunity to strive to be the very best that they can be.

I hate to admit it because I always found her a little too extreme for my taste but Ayn Rand was right. We are allowing mediocrity to take control and become the new standard by which we will live. I wonder how long it will be before the best of us, the most successful, the most talented and the most creative simply give us the finger and move somewhere else.

I also wonder how mediocrity will serve us then. Where is John Galt when you need him most?

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8 comments:

  1. So Canada is catching up to California in this idiocy? I think some people around here are finally starting to move away from this nonsense. Let's all repeat: One earns self-esteem by doing well, not by being rewarded for doing nothing.

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    1. When she was little, my daughter used to question why she had to do what her mother and I told her. I explained that it was because of our experience and that we were like a family of lions. It was her mother's and my responsibility to teach her everything we could to prepare her for life, in the same way that lions raise their cubs to be able to survive on the Serengetti.

      A few years later she asked why we got to make all the rules when I had told her that we were all equal. I handed her a copy of Animal Farm and said, "Read this. All animals are equal but some animals are more equal than others." She looked at me and said, "I've read it already. Does this mean you and mom are pigs?" Hard to argue with logic like that.

      We raised her to believe in herself but be aware of and supportive of others. We taught that life is unfair and she would have to compete but not to take advantage of others.

      University wasn't easy for her and she dropped out for a few months but she went back, got her degree and the feeling of accomplishment that brought her remains to this day.

      Her career started very slowly but she persevered and today has a great career that pays her well.

      We taught her but she accomplished those things on her own and she is proud of that. These mediocre fools who dream up this PC nonsense would rob our children of that sense of accomplishment and purpose in later life and the drive to achieve it.

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  2. What idiocy. I'm wondering if this is a trend in soccer only. My son played hockey and only in the entry level did we not keep score because the kids were there to learn the game. They also palyed and a small surface ice no where near regulation size. When he switched to rugby, we have two games. The 'A' side which a score is kept and the 'B' game that's used as a learning to tool for those just starting out in the sport. No score kept there but the kids play just as hard.

    So glad my kid never got into soccer. Of course, watching a bunch of five year old play soccer is a painful experience... or is that just watching soccer?

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    1. I used to coach basketball. I had the opportunity to coach the older kids in the competitive leagues but chose to work with the younger entry-level kids.

      They were so small, we had to drop the baskets two feet and use smaller balls. The focus was on skills development and we didn't keep score during games.........but they did.

      |Every kid on every team knew exactly what the score was all the way through every game. So, who's kidding who?

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  3. I can assure people that this kind of thinking is not just a trend in soccer or sports. It is beginning to permeate all areas where kids are concerned; from in-class tests that shouldn't have grades, to auditioning for a school show where children expect to be able to perform regardless of skills. Why do people think that anyone who is willing can be on a stage? I try to teach students that there should be a certain level of respect for the stage reflected by what is presented on it, and them same should go for any kind of performance in front of an audience. What happened to standards and expectations ? What are we really teaching kids when everything has to be sunshine and roses?

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    1. I agree with you but I think this is indicative of a broader attitude that is currently loose in our societies. I believe this is part of a war against achievement.

      We see it everyday. The rich are blamed for being rich. The successful go from being idolized to demonized in a heartbeat and usually it is the under achievers, those looking for someone else to blame or to pay their way that lead the charge.

      Occupy, student tuition protests, unions, activists all lay claim to the higher moral ground but try to achieve it by undermining the achievements and success of others.

      Instead of striving to achieve, they work to pull the over-achievers down to their level and what better way to do that than to teach children not to compete?

      It is the foundation of political correctness. Make everyone equal based on the lowest common denominator.

      God help us.

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  4. The idiocy will end. It may end when people wake up to the fact that magical thinking is not a formula for survival. Then again, it may end when we are finally bankrupt and anarchy sweeps away all of the monuments to man's achievements (including the soccer fields and stadiums). The idiocy may end when bullies rise to fill the vacuums created by our inability to govern ourselves. Every possible alternative leads to an end. Good luck to the survivors and my profound apologies to the generations that will suffer because we failed so miserably.

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    1. Societies swing on a pendulum, moving back and forth from one extreme to the other. The tragedy is that a society is never more successful or happy than when the pendulum stops swinging and is at rest in the middle. When that happens, some idiot starts it swinging again.

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